>>17115651as we get older the long game tends not to be the most efficient way like it was when we were kids. if youre unwilling to play the long game with the uggos at work then you have to approach women in the real world. grocery store, gas station, restaurant, shopping mall, gym...etc. dude, women are everywhere just go outside. if you see a pretty girl talk to her and show her you arent a complete slob. your mentality shouldnt be 'i hope she likes me' it should be 'do i like her?'.