>>15319966im 32 as well, same boat
>just got a new job after 9 months of unemployment>ex gf filed criminal chargesbe the best version of yourself. find hobbies, or reinforce the ones you already have. Go ALL in on something, you're 32, too old to be half-in / half-out. If you aim to be the best version of yourself, you'll find similar people.
Worse than being alone, is being around shitty people