>>14869951this
confidence is a spook and shaming word used to attack low value and low status men because it implies they are intentionally doing it wrong and need to get gud
there actually isn't such a thing as confidence other than having basic social skills and the ability to hold a conversation. high or low confidence is an internal feeling someone has based on their self assessement of their competence or success rate for any particular situation or task. a pro gamer joining a pub server to rape some low ranked noobs feels confident. he rapes them not because of this feeling , but because of his reflexes and skill. its possible he could sabotage his game by being under confident and camping in a corner if he suddenly had a mental breakdown or was toned or something, who knows. or over confident leading to him playing like a retard and taking stupid risks that get him killed even with noobs. but in general, he rapes them because of his innate abilities
chad is confident around girls cause he's fucked them before, he knows how to do it, its another game for him that he might win or lose at but he's won enough to play his part. but the reason he's fucked these girls is cause he's good looking or tall or popular or whatever. logically, even Chad was once a virgin, yet he still had girls trying to fuck him before he ever sealed the deal on his first lay
