>>13446263>>13446258I've got two answers for you, OP.
My first answer, well, she only hates you because of who she thinks you are.
Let's review.
>of course she finds out and calls me a vile monster, evil, horrible human being, tells me never contact her again >>13446263>"You have betrayed me">"You are fucking evil">"The fact that you cannot wrap your head around why this is wrong"It's basic philosophy: people don't have feelings about particular things in and of themselves, but of their subjective perception of those things. More simply: she doesn't hate YOU, but she hates who she THINKS you are.
See where I'm going with this?
The solution is to change who she THINKS you are. I'd try talking to her sister's boyfriend again. Maybe sell some sob story about wanting to apologize and then during the convo yank at the heartstrings. If you can get him (her?) on your side, that's a huge win. Maybe you could orchestrate some good publicity with mutuals, as well. If they clearly like you, it might be harder for her to hate you too, but personally I think you gotta focus on the sister's boyfriend.
What do you think?
