>>17127159I stopped trying. Last girl I met in the gym was all over me, I thought that it was finally time to lose my v-card. She wound up stringing me along, she wanted to talk non-stop but the second I tried for a date it was a no-go. Craziest part? By sheer chance I wound up having her in one of my classes and I found out she's freaking 30 years old. I'm 23. She's 30, has tons of student debt, cats, doesn't even have her degree yet... And she just saw me as attention material and not a date. That for me was the point of no return, I've checked out and just been focusing on developing myself and having fun.