>>19443376I mean, same with the blacked shit, a big element for many isn't just the big dick actors or the contrast of dark on light skin but the racial insecurity over feeling inferior TO what they more broadly consider an "inferior".
Careful though, many trans people start on the /pol/tard pipeline at first and many also use sissy/forced-fem fetishes as coping mechanisms before fully accepting themselves.
Bit of a chicken or the egg thing where especially transphobes will say it's evidence it's all a fetish and the sissy/forced-fem fetish TURNED them trans.
It's not exactly rocket science, however, why someone who desperately wants/needs something like to transition but is treated as a literal monster by society for would be drawn to a fantasy where they are "forced"(and therefor alleviated of responsibility for) to do it.
Sex fantasies can be a "safe" setting for people to begin to address issues even if it's not therapy. Victims of rape and abuse will sometimes fetishize their experience and include it in sex-play to even just begin to recognise the issue when they can't even bring it up otherwise.