>>13060472>Just tell her you love her and want to be with her, but a kid right now would destroy that.I have heard this advice from 2 other people as well. Karmic aspect aside, my fear is that me telling her i love her (BIG lie) ill only re-enforce her desire to have it. I am also unsure of the logic behind a woman thinking that if she keeps the kid a guy will stay, do they really do that?
I am definitely befuddled