>>4138669i can relate to this somewhat (farther had traumatic upbringing through losing both parents by a young age). he was a bitter person to live with and rarely said anything nice to anyone really. pretty much zero memories of anything but contempt coming out of his mouth until he got ill enough for fucking die then it was all sunshine and rainbows. Just remember, he had it rough so hes just perpetuating the cycles brought upon him from no fault of his own.. most likely. or something i don't fucking know. good luck.