>>10059648I'm a firm believer in the NAP.
As long as my wife doesn't hit me, there is no reason to hit her.
Just as there is no reason to draw a gun to her head unless she does the same.
But none of this will happen.
See, if you're in a situation where you are forced to hit your wife, it means you fucked up. You married someone you didn't truly love and you didn't work hard enough to make this marriage work.
Don't expect things to go well. Unless you relentlessly work hard for your marriage to work out, it won't. Marriage is like an aircraft carrier: maintenance is a BITCH.
but if you work for it, you can have the happiest marriage in the world.