>>15491146https://www.npr.org/2021/03/08/974786552/abusive-relationships-are-disturbingly-common-heres-how-to-support-a-loved-onehttps://www.solid-ground.org/when-someone-you-care-about-is-in-an-unhealthy-or-violent-relationship/You support them, you love them, when you voice concerns you focus on the problematic behaviors. Heaping blame on the person in the relationship is the exact OPPOSITE of what you should do. Controlling people with threats is a whole other type of abuse even if you have the best of intentions. It will drive them further away because fact is most young women and young men will chose their lover over their mom. That's romance for you.
