>>19774201The sexes were never equal, and treating them equal is where you're running into this mental wall.
>Am I pathetic and insecure if I want my wife to be an untouched and innocent virgin?No. But you're unrealistic.
Life isn't fair. You need to let it go and accept that your unicorn doesn't exist and make the best of what you have.
I'm not saying accept Tyrone's son, or smile with glee that your girlfriend participated in multiple man/animal gangbangs, but accept that the average woman by her mid 20's will have had sex with 4 or 5 guys at least; which sounds insane but is relatively tame in the modern day where you can get a stranger pumping you within the hour.
We unfortunately live in a hypersexualized society and they spend every waking moment since 14 being ogled and brainwashed to "find themselves" but that doesn't discount the good women who are out there. Again, not telling you to get with a whore, but you need to be realistic in that in her shoes you would've experimented too.
