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Hi, verified Human Woman™ here. So the BDSM/degradation appeals to me when I'm masturbating (I don't watch porn, but I do imagine hardcore stuff when I'm alone) but not when I'm actually with my boyfriend. I'm probably into it because I lost my virginity to a puerto rican drug dealer who raped me ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ I think most women who are interested in that stuff either A. hate themselves or B. have been sexually assaulted (and i mean ACTUALLY assaulted, not being kissed in an elevator or having your butt grabbed). I think because I've worked to deal with what happened to me and because I'm in love, I can now enjoy sweet, romantic intimacy without any fantasy or violence or degradation