>>12510362it's not that it's straight out of college for me, it's that it's without living together. in theory i'd be fine if they lived together for a while during college. they have dorms for couples here and you can live together even if you don't go to the same university. but i guess that only works if you're in the same city and their case is probably different. idk seems fucked but i guess they can just stay engaged for another 6 years and then decide.
a friend told me about a friend of hers who recently broke up with her long time man or divorced him or idk. she said it was because he wouldn't go down on her. during sex after he coomed he'd just tell her "alright you can sort yourself out from here" and go do something else. and when she asked him about it he said "you crazy? no way am i sticking my head down there. don't look at what they do in porn, that shit is unrealistic". they'd apparently only been with each other and been together since high school. i guess watching porn can fuck you up but not watching porn or at least getting some kind of sex ed can fuck you up as well. the guy honestly thought this and she had no way of knowing he was wrong.
now i call up the company you work for and use the imbalanced power relations between worker and employer and get you fired. i do this because i'm anti-fascist and anti-capitalist and pro-worker.
