>>20830627That would depend on the girl but what should concern you the most is that you preserve your dignity. My wife made all the moves and while I may not deserve all the good that she has given me I was pleased to know that I was right to never chase after anyone. It did not give me the confidence to approach anyone but it helped me find what is valuable in me, which in turn, I assume, made me seem satisfied with myself. All I had to do was bide my time. But even if you decide otherwise, you should only try to get together with someone once, more than that and it will look like you have no respect for yourself, in which case how can you expect her to respect you?
