>>4835916>But there were many well to do women there! >Just, ignore the indoctrinated ones... I can only assume you meant the second command when you said that some had racemixed.
There is a plethora of methods for finding women of this character that does not involve college. Bookclubs, going to the library, highschool (if you manage to take the opportunity in time), church (for those who are religious), and the workforce are just a few.
Hell, this is not even considering pure happenstance. My parents, for example, met purely because their table numbers were confused at a restaurant they happened to attend at the same time.