>>17139269Point A, the cornerstone of a healthy life:
Accept that life is hard and full of suffering leads you out of victim mentality and moves you forward.
Point B, The vices:
Realizing that short sighted pleasures; Cooming, drugs and alcohol, numbing tv or vidyagames consumption etc; is distracting you from point A. Thus holding you back. Avoid as much as you can.
With that said you should of course try to find love, an occasional fap doesn't hurt you but realize that everytime you indulge it's to cope from point A.
Once point A is accepted the suffering from point A is decreased. Everytime you do the vice of point B the suffering from point A is increased.
Work on the long sighted goal of becoming a stable person who respects himself and propels himself forward in life despite strife and hardship. That will also make you attractive to others.
