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You think back to the time you got your heart crushed by a BPD and then you try to avoid girls like this in future.
>love bombing
>early incident where you upset her terribly and forgiveness is required
>she uses this to beat you over the head any time she needs you to do what she wants
>she will upgrade this story over time and replace it with any bigger fuck ups you make
>treats you like she can't live without you
>suddenly silent treatment
>any criticism is turned back on you, she does not admit to faults readily. If she does, it's always with the disclaimer that "well you were wrong too"
>fakes closeness with you very quickly to simulate affection
>hints or straight up tells you about past abuse, friends who abandoned her, missing parent, neglectful parent who fed her a bad diet, loved her very conditionally
>very vocally against adultery
>cheats readily, has 5 guys on IG and IMs texting her late at night
You'll know
