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I've never been in a long distance relationship before, this is my first one. I met her in my job, but she's currently in a different branch, in a different state - though they plan on moving her over to me in a few months. We've been texting, calling, making plans, talking about our feelings, all the normal stuff. We agreed that the relationship really couldn't grow any further without physical interactions and to just kind of keep carrying on until she gets here. It was going fine. The problem now is out of nowhere she cold turkied on communications. I don't know why, but she won't respond to my texts, nor has she read them based on the "S/D/R" system of our messenger. I've not sent her a text in 4 days now.
Plenty of emotions have gone through my head, and I still haven't tried to call her, because I don't want to give her the satisfaction - but is that the right thing to do? I'm afraid if I try to send more texts or break down and call I'll seem really clingy and only make it worse. What should I do? Any idea on why she would do this? When should I give up on her?
Also our conversations up til she quit were normal, somewhat boring, but nothing I noticed as being awful or weird. It really came out of nowhere.
