>>3798938Just because something is "rude" doesn't mean it's not true.
That said: OP, I've had this happen to me once before. The only choices are continual heart ache or just cutting her out of your life and moving on. Personally I chose the second option myself and I'm a lot happier ever since I did so. It sucks to have to give up on something like that, but it's better than constant depression while you hope for something that won't come. Get out before you fall so deep into depression you become suicidal.
Sorry that you have to go through this, it sucks more than anything else but you're just setting yourself up for years and years of misery. Man up and admit to yourself you have no chance and move one. You'll thank yourself for it down the road. Trust me.