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You can only really have fun with girls when it is. Or your fitness has made you sure it is, if you can be good everything else can. Deserving some reward, something to please with your existance and efforts to please. Girls that enjoy being pleased. Movies, kissing, going down on her etc. Sex.
Something else just to enjoy being near them. Pressured with selfishness to make it sexual too. Though it is needed for children and is good. Girls need you to be the one pressuring them for sex. Not pressuring... Just trying to make the right moment for it. 90% lean in, 10% kissed back.
Time pressures the wrong moment and she was right to draw away.
Masturbation lessens the demand for the right noment perhaps. But maybe prolongs it or makes you more about easing them than yourself. It's sure hot to watch a girl masturbate for your pleasure. Pleased by her being pleased.
Self masturbating even when sex was sure made me go down on her more. Play with her more (Danish). Perform badly when trying to penetrate her... Common thing for me maybe. Except with (Polish).
When it's nice. When she bends over to take it. No bullshit flirtation. Straight to fucking. Some time where you can't masturbate eg at a nightclub dancing and drinking, some kissing... Already both horny. Already sure you both should fuck. Be up to what you clearly want to do...
May just want tohang out with them because theyare cool, give them a good time. Amazing when she takes off her own clothes.
Pure pleasure.
Wanting to not pressured. No pressure. All her. No script. Just her. Free. Just for you for the moment. Just for her maybe. Showing she has control over herself. Is careless and care free. Pleasure incarnate to give at her will to what deserves it. Or will because of her. Whatever. No worries.