>>562524Fucking this. Unless you make sure they know you don't give a shit either way. I have told my wife a few times, "Meh, you let me do whatever I want to you so if you wanted to strap on it wouldn't bother me." She still hasn't wanted to, she's just not into it. Women are into being controlled especially in some new way. They have no sexual creativity so if you do something as new as it is degrading, they come buckets. The first time you jam your fingers in their mouth while slamming her, or choking her, all that. The hardest my wife has ever come was after I was down on her, then two to pink, then one to stink, then I kept all that going while moving into 69 and jamming my dick in her mouth. She was moaning and choking and cumming, it was phenomenal.