>>8917428By using their posts as a baseline for your own fantasies to emerge. I'm so damn flexible in my kinks that if I see something with the remotest chance to turn me on internally I'm sorta just like 'Oh imagine if xyz' and nek minnit im in a perpetual semi-aroused state.
I COULD just masturbate but that's less fun, and anyway I tend to view my libido as a resource, like mana. For instance it turns me on to do all the house chores, so if I masturbate im also sorta killing my drive to tidy the house. Also, I could get a message from some random client at any moment so if I masturbate during the day I may be shooting myself in the foot and lose money cause I don't feel like it.