>>20640396no, this is more blame the man shit
girls that text you at night like a gf are deliberately doing this to these guys, predating on their good nature. they are deliberately instilling false hopes. years ago girls used to call that guy their "cuddle bitch" and laugh with each other about how bad the guy wants them but they will never fuck him.
girls like this deliberately ramp up the sexual tension and create frustration on purpose, mostly because they are psychopathic and simply get a thrill out of watching them squirm, pure sadistic glee. they love nothing better than cuddling with you on the couch, and then having their new boyfriend come over and make out in front of you etc.
a lot of the time these guys have a car or access to something else they need, so they cocktease and get rides everywhere, get taken out to dinner, all the girlfriend boyfriend stuff, only she reaps all the benefits and he does all the paypigging.
these are usually well meaning men who are very naive and that is what is played on.
and the whole being shocked thing is another layer of mind game. she will let it cool down, then slowly reel him back in for more cat and mouse games. these women always have several of these guys plus the face-tatted drug dealer(s) they are fucking
