>>21440515>Make money>Read>Workout>Train grappling or striking with a professional (teaching yourself a skill is sometimes detrimental, especially if you develop muscle memory for the incorrect way).>Play Chess (to win).You're on the right track. But train your mind, too. No decent woman will EVER want to have children with a man who they think is objectively intellectually inferior.
>Chess>Gym>Books (Start with something you might like before trying to dive into philosophy - fantasy/sci-fi would be the most likely reasonable starting point for people who training themselves to enjoy reading).