>>21142072So, every female friend of my wife's used to be single.
Now a couple are married, and one practically is (lived together for 5 years)
You know what the difference between them is?
All the ones who actually have a partner used to go looking for boyfriends. Then they realized it kept not working out, and when they complained about what the men weren't (reliable, supportive, funny) they realized they already had a good man in their life like that.
That's all it took.
The women that are single, or go from relationship to relationship are always trying to find "the guy that fits me best"
They jump into the sack fast because "compatibility is important"
they go to parties where they get stoned or drunk because "they have to have fun"
they end up having their relationship fall apart because they wait too long to talk about the big issues like marriage, children, etc because "I don't want to scare them off"
they don't want to find men.
They want to date.
And they hope that one day, one of the guys they date will suddenly level up to a guy they' marry.
But they're ENJOYING the dating, and that's the problem.
Dating is work. Your job is to test to see if the other person has what it takes to make you two as a couple work.
As soon as they have flags that show it's not going to work, you gotta cut bait.
otherwise you're wasting your time
