>>7421613She's already filed, you have no kids, and you're two years in?
Let her go. It isn't going to get better and will only get harder and more expensive in the future. A friend once told me, once she wants a divorce, it isn't going to get better. He's right. Maybe you could save this relationship if she was threatening, trying to get attention. That isn't a fighting fair. But you've got papers already? Send her packing.