>>11289275You don't and the reason you are so fucked up is because the system is designed to make you that way. The two parents working and push to place children in public school as soon as possible is all an attempt to exploit basic simian instinctual need for comfort and support while they are growing. This creates broke, weak, fearful, and violent children who grow up to become perfect slaves to the jews.
If you really want to get into the how and whys I suggest you look into Harry Harlow's primate experiments. The documentary Mother Love gives a very brief introduction to his core theories and shows some of the effects. Shit was groundbreaking and, while very cruel to the monke, it offered a glimpse into how the jew destroys healthy nations by destroying their children.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=znBa3lap5jQ