>>19638226>They LOVE having enemies.confrontation
an audience
they form a consensus group
they pick on mental health
conflate schizophrenic with murderer or conflate schizo with bipolar
will make you take meds when it is a voluntary thing
create dependencies
change from good to bad behavior back to good on an hourly cycle
BUT once you have taken the absolute most of it you notice patterns
and once thats done you get relentless
then you keep getting it and they forget the whole world and just dedicate their life to you
then your whole family rests as you shield them from the narcissist
then you do this for 20 years
then you learn and look withing and fix your reactions you learn about you and why they and what they know about your buttons
slowly fix those buttons ione by one methodically
you just stare at them when they pull stuff you have fixed
they change position
do this long enough, 20 years or..10,000 hours and you are a mephisto fucking damage sponge for the sake of your whole family's growth
then they are dependant on YOU, they ask advice and parrot that advice
you are making their narrative you are doing their thinking for them
"manipulators are slow learners"
then what suggestions you made years ago SUDDENLY are their ideas..you plug away
soon those years become months
and soon, very soon anon...you have a narcissist slave
and usually that entails sending your father to jail. and causing your mother panic but you use whatapp voice or facebook messenger when you have emotional outburst "message" to your mom but send it to all, ALL your family friends and strangers who were saved by your ABSOLUT UNET TANKING of their damage
and thats the zenith, they are dependant on you and now you eliminated their coalition and their consense=us, they become pure cruelty to their coalition
and thats how you break the spell