>>20890490She was stringing him along and it was upsetting him to the point that he became an angry, depressed, and just downright awful to be around. By September, he became irate over everything. He was so critical of me and mean. He started going out to the strip club (an hour away from home) every single chance he got. Naturally, the depression started to kick in as I began to realize due to his horrible behavior I wasn't in love with him any more, and perhaps he was not with me either. I got bored and started going to the bar at the local mexican restaurant about 15 mins from my house.
And I met the bartender. I started coming in every night he worked and we bonded over drinks and had great conversations. I finally worked up the courage to give him my number and he asked me to come over and watch a movie. I know it was wrong, but I was extremely attracted to this man, and I said yes. Fast forward, he found out and we had a big blow up.