>>365631729 yo. INTP here
Agreed on the "noone really gets you" part. You can learn though. I have a handy list of normie topics and responses which seems to suffice.
It's not that hard with girls once you crack the code though. Although I admit I was never in it for the sex. Once I was literally in the bed with a girl at a party and just left as I felt talking to her in the morning would be a chore.
On the other hand you can find interesting girls on the net, pic related talked to me about epigenetics on our first date. If conversation is good I don't feel like I'm wasting time. Otherwise social interactions are just a chore.