>>16614895well what if you play basketball and she beats you and it lowers her opinion of you
or what if you win and she gets really frustrated about it
or what if she does beat you but you suck at basketball so it gives her a false sense of confidence that shatters when she tries to play competitively
or what if she ends up spending so much time playing that she doesn't have any time to spend with you or what if it inhibits your ability to enjoy non-competitive activities
>>16614947that seems like a good idea on the surface but she might want to dote on you and try to treat the ankle and you would be LYING to your GIRLFRIEND and she might ask to play later so you're just postponing the inevitable while digging our relationship's grave