>>11762132>>11762132I somewhat agree, but my own personal experience differs. I was fat from birth until around the age of 15 and nothing, I mean fucking NOTHING, just "happened". At that age, no one gives a shit about your sparkling personality, all they see is a tub of shit and they treat you like that in kind. I lost over 100 lbs in about 10 months and then, as if by magic, everything just started "happening" to me. I remember self-conscious about prom, I never spoke to a girl before in my entire life, how the fuck was I going to approach one about going to prom? Didn't have to, one approached me. Shit like that happened all the time, all the shit I worried about when I was fat just went away.
Growing up as a fatty definitely mentally stunted me, I never just do something for the hell of it, I'm still too self-conscious and overthink everything, but since it turned out that I was somewhat sorta kinda good looking under all the chub, things just happen for me instead.
If you PHYSICALLY improve yourself, it doesn't really matter what you think or what decisions you make, things this guy is describing will just naturally happen to you.
