>>19192300It's tricky, but I just try to be honest for better or often for worse and it generally works out. I'm terrible at missing signals and making dumb mistakes (like drinking too much because I'm nervous) but I'd rather live that life than fake it til I make it. Then again I'm probably a hypocrite because I keep my family insulated from everything, don't really want to have "the talk" with them until I'm in a serious long-term relationship that I think is going somewhere.
Pigeonholing is annoying but if you can handle the stale wit it's not too bad. It can be fun talking about people with this stuff, although sometimes they get weird ideas lol
Anyway it's really late here in Bongland so while it's been nice chatting I'm going to "love you and leave you" as we say here. Hope you find what you're looking for and get that pin :*