>>22493750There are no upsides to having a woman, only downsides. Getting married comes with catastrophic financial risks that have a high likelihood of occurring (divorce). Men want to end up owning their own homes so they are financially comfortable and secure in their later years. They can't do that if they get divorced a couple of times, sending them back to the start line each time.
My own dad was divorced in his 70's. Now he is renting a tiny one-bed studio apartment, the kind that students usually rent.
Myself I'm one of those rare 50+ single men who managed to keep his house which is now fully paid off. My outgoings are so low that I'm stuffed with cash like a piñata and only need part-time work. And all because I refused to date or marry, despite having women throw themselves at me all my life.