>>3758655I agree, I think that's where concern for well being comes in. I think people are capable of caring on this level, but it needs to start subconsciously in most cases. Freud speculated a lot about how wild and unpredictable our subconsciouses are and how that means we can only submit to its whims while making excuses about how to justify our behavior. I think love as an emotion behaves like that. I've never met a person I truly loved that I consciously determined I was going to treat in the best way possible. Either I needed that person at some point in life (good memory association) or I had been hurt severely enough by our status as enemies to want to feel of value to them.
