>>15598157I'm autistic and adhd. My dad thought I could be "fixed" by being disciplinned enough. They never bothered properly teaching me to speak so I spoke a mix of Norwegian, english, and filipino. It meant I had to learn Norwegian on my own at school. Then I have a little sister that was 1 year younger than me so they were forced to take less care of me. Not like my dad would step in. I remember my dad told me as a toddler I would grab a plate and eat by myself and he found it amusing. It's not that babysitting me is hard, it's just that people are assholes and made me into an asshole too. Then blame me for being an asshole, when I'm just being like everyone else
