>>915401347 year old Gen X bringing good news for you.
In your 20's you feel like a failure, but things will turn around. Behold, your solution:
The 20's - Choose sex
Everybody feels shit in their 20's. That's the time to party and have sex. You won't have money.
The 30's - Pick 1.5 out of 3
in your 30's you get things together. You can either go to the gym and get a rock hard body, or, you can start a family, or, you can chase a career. Typically you can do one of these things, but if you work hard you can do one and a half. Nobody does all three, it's not possible.
The 40's - Think like a Boomer
If you had children they'll be leaving home. If you went to the gym you're an inspiration to others. If you pursued a career you're heading to the top 1% of your field.
The 40's is where it all starts coming together.