>>16086648Yeah, I feel you. I'm a late 80s millennial and I was raised in the city around a fuck ton of degeneracy. Grandmother was religious but my mom was a hippie for most of her life so I didn't get what grandma used to say at first. I've spent my adolescence and part of my young adulthood just having casual sex. Fortunately I get attached to people very easily and had a few long-term relationships, so my body count is around 20 in total. It came to me how meaningless casual sex is when I broke up with my ex in 2019. A friend then recommended me this app Bumble and in two weeks I had two two dates and fucked two girls, both of them didn't really want anything serious. I remember feeling that I had just wasted my time and money to still be feeling empty right after. I outright refuse one nighters now.
But the problem as far as I can tell is that people who engage in this activity very rarely realize how bad it is. And from a man perspective, it certainly doesn't inspire confidence if a girl says she has slept around with hundreds of guys. I mean, it clearly shows it's a habit, and even if I do have good self-esteem I don't think I'd be able to magically change someone's habit of fucking everyone to sudden monogamy.
I started going to church and I deleted all my social media in 2015 so I don't care about the digital social ladder game kids are playing these days. I will either eventually find a good woman who didn't partake in casual carousel dick riding, or I'll just live to be the cool uncle for my nephews.
tl;dr shit is fucked. casual sex is meaningless.
