>>15253988>yeah it's something i want to do, i used to make a lot of friends so easily before I think I get your feel, I do recall myself that I used to be able to meet and talk to people way easier in the past, but, I think it might be just looking at then through rose-tinted glasses, you know? I don't think I could really say they were friends, more so people that I made acquaintance with, just because.
>but now it feels almost impossible to do it nowYou know, it is something that's really hard to, making an actual friend. If you do, it'll be from an absurd coincidence, in a place where you'd last expect to find your future best friend or whatever. You just can't do it from trying, I think. My friends that I like a lot, I really didn't look around for them, or really try to make them. I found them from a string of coincidences linked back to something I liked doing a lot, it just happened. You could make a conversation with anybody, sure, but, it's not a guarantee that you'll click together and keep enjoying each others company. You have to be get lucky to meet somebody, like the people you mentioned farther into your post. I think you should be grateful that you have. And, you don't have to force yourself to keep meeting new people and trying to make friends, either. It really is normal to just have a couple or so close friends and that being it, trust me. You don't need to have like 20 people that you talk to every day.
I might've rambled on there, I'll try putting it in a more basic form, if you want me to.
>i dont feel that much more confident desu but maybe it takes some time to set in, or maybe i just need more practice or maybe bothWell, it probably is a thing that you slowly warm up to, yeah. When you do feel confident, it'll happen without noticing.
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