>>1848070Traps arent 'really' gay, traps are just confused as hell and its sad. What is the point in going from one compromised gender identity role to another? Its not attractive to me when someone covets anything or lets something like gender control that much of their life..
I mean its nice to look nice and dress nice, feminine qualities are nice especially if you can pull them off but basing your entire sexual premise on how far you can become removed from your male self like some of these people do is just stupid. Those types of people usually end up being kinda fucked up one way or another because ultimately they lack balance. It is much better to just ditch the notions entirely and live, act, express in a way that makes one happy and free, without all the pre-conditions of a label. Being a 'girl' is about much more than just the way a person thinks, talks and acts in the moment. It is unfortunate that so many people are so unhappy with the way they are that they never see the mid-ground option of working with what they have and learning to love both sides of the self, outward and inner, and learning to make them work together, not apart.. And then the whole 'trans' culture reaffirms these people while making anyone with contrary claims or advice, even mine, seem like narrow-minded bigots. That is pretty fucking gay desu.
Sexually, really, I guess it is some vague middle ground but I think ultimately it comes down to a mix of perception and reality and as such each case is going to be unique, along a gray scale because these kinds of issues are never black and white.
