>>8078821) Stop saying "a normie," say "normal." This drops the implication that being normal means doing boring things.
2) Join a group which helps people. You likely have some grasp of the problems in the world, but that knowledge is useless unless you apply it.
3) Go to a good church that focuses on sound doctrine; write down specific questions and ask the senior pastor.
4) Try lots of things that involve being outside: consuming media will not help you (you can go on /out/ and /fit/ as long as you actually do the stuff and you do it with other people).
5) Be righteous, honest, genuine, and selfless, do things for others without becoming a doormat. If you must correct someone do it tactfully; if you are corrected do not be defensive. The point is that everyone should improve, and no one should be more concerned with winning than becoming right.