>>11098864>The reason she wants to adopt is cause this was a foster kid one of her family members was taking care of, but shit happened with him and so there isnt anyone that will take her now. My wife is pretty attached to the kid and known them for a long timeUhuh, okay, well go ahead and tell her all about how brown people are inferior so you don't want that one. I'm sure that will go over just fine.
Tell her you only want biological kids? I wouldn't want to adopt. But that reason your wife has does happen to be a rare good reason to actually adopt someone so.... whatevs.
You're only 21, you're gonna break up in 2 years anyway.