>>19473505you're free to control the conversation, but do not act needy or you will be seen as a bitch. if you try to talk and she doesn't want to then you are the bitch. I rarely initiate contact with my wife, typically she wants to talk, and then I control the conversation. I make the decisions, she follows. It has led to a very harmonious 20 years for me.
Have your own goals, have your own pursuits. Place them first, your wife is nice to have around but is never to be the center piece of your life, ever. The instant you do that shit you will be seen as a bitch and she will lose respect for you.
