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It's not the same because the concept of virginity doesn't apply to men, that's a relatively recent expansion of the definition used to shame men. Men are not the property of their wives, it is the wife who is the exclusive property of the husband. When she loses her maidenhood, she loses something very intimate. However, it should be noted that illicit sex is actually even worse for men in another sense, as such behavior is incredibly effeminate and unbecoming. Sex is the realm of women, not men, and it is always the man who is seduced by the woman. Men who live for sex are thus men who live for women, and cannot really be taken seriously as men, because it is the woman who was designed for the man.
