>>21555826First of all your desires don't define you. You can have a favourite colour for example but it doesn't define who you are as a person (like "I'm such an orange guy" you get how absurd it is). You are not your cravings, if you're a heavy drinker even an alcoholic your addiction doesn't make your worth as a person. So take a chill pill.
Then there's this meme about "I'm not a pedophile I'm a ephebephile" or something. This is partially true, because as long as you're aroused by sexually developped humans it's technically not that weird. That's more of an opinion but it's educated, because there's also a bunch of social factors and norms (and laws).
Finally as long as you don't offend or hurt anyone, it's basically fine. What you should worry about is not your own identity as a potential pedophile, it should be about what is the psychological cause of being attracted to minors because that's an issue. You really should be attracted to people your age, or of your maturity.
Anyway hope you figure it out.
