>>10970581what her problem is, and its not uncommon among women, is that she believes men find the same things attractive as she does.
she constanly mentions ambition, success, drive, motivation. these ate things women find attractive. she doesn't realize that men dont care about any of that. men care about youth, beauty, and chastity. but tomi is quick to shame men for liking things that she doesnt like.
in the end tomi spend all that time and effort trying to become rich, successful, and famous because she wants to marry a rich successful, famous man. but is now realizing that all her effort was for not, and i fact counter productive because shes squander a good part of her youth and has boxed herself in with insanely high standards