>>12306109the right to call yourself a thing is earned by a unique set of circumstances
you don't get to be a lawyer by playing one on TV
going through your life as an effeminate male is still nothing like the unique life experience of a biological woman, and only a biological woman has earned the right to call herself such
you may be a 'thing', and that 'thing' may arguably be 'valid', but you can no more become a woman than you can become an oppressed minority by painting yourself black.