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>Sigmund Freud once said “all energy is sexual,” meaning that subliminally we will direct our motivation for ungratified sexual impulse (e.g. masturbation) to other endeavors. Thus, it’s men, being the sex with the highest amount of libido inducing testosterone, who must look for far more outlets to transfer this motivation to than women. So, is it any real surprise that it is men who have primarily been the empire builders, the conquerors, the creators, and destroyers who has (for better or worse) moved humanity the most significantly? Curb your impulse to jerk off and instead create, thrive, lift, and make money.
>The only way to determine genuine motivation and or intent is to observe the behavior of an individual. All one need to do is compare behavior and the results of it to correlate intent. A woman will communicate vast wealths of information and truths to a man if he’s only willing to accept her behavior, not exclusively her words, as the benchmark for what she’s relating. He must also understand that the truth she betrays in her behavior is often not what he wants to accept.
>We get frustrated because women communicate differently than we do. Women communicate covertly (think of vagina - it doesn’t show when aroused), men communicate overtly (think of an erection). Men convey information, women convey feeling. In relating information, men prioritize content, women prioritize context.
>A cardinal truth of the universe is that genuine desire cannot be negotiated. The moment you tell your wife or your girlfriend that you will exchange a behavior or attitude or belief or any other compromise for her desire you fundamentally change her organic desire into obligation.
