im not really sure anon, all the answers youre gonna get are anons retelling their experiences as if they're the universal truth, just like
>>16751370 who probably got treated like shit a few times and decided to internalise that into "love isn't real >:(" instead of counting his losses and moving on. he might wish for others to view him as manly and strong but he is very fragile inside, and i hope that he sorts his problems out as that is no way to live
anyway yea to give you as unbiased of an answer as i can (i got fucked over in an online relationship myself), it'd take a lot of patience and balls, even if all goes well. and a shitload of trust. if you've got trust/abandonment issues it would be hell (yes i'm projecting). you're probably better off just finding someone nearby desu
and if youre trying to get that japanese coochie then i recommend holding off until youre actually there, or very close to coming over