>>5911178your best hope desu is to develop some IRL recreational activity, especially stuff that is female friendly and attracts them but not female exclusive .. like yoga for example.. there may be limited types of things that you would seriously consider joining or doing irl so get creative if you can,
try a girl friendly martial art or take an art class or volunteer at an animal shelter or even just hang out in the cafe or park reading a book that isn't some weird heavy shit, getting out and about and being approachable and friendly is the key
don't even bother with online dating especially tinder it's a cancerous and terrible way to meet women unless you're literally a Chad
https://medium.com/@worstonlinedater/tinder-experiments-ii-guys-unless-you-are-really-hot-you-are-probably-better-off-not-wasting-your-2ddf370a6e9a>a man of average attractiveness can only expect to be liked by slightly less than 1% of females (0.87%). This equates to 1 “like” for every 115 females. You can be of above average attractiveness and still only get liked by a few percent of women on Tinder. If you aren’t in the very upper echelons you aren’t likely to have much success using Tinder. 